She told me to stop contacting you, saying that I had been giving you a lot of problems and that since I wasn't even your fiancee or your wife, I shouldn't even be meeting you. Even when I told her that you promised to meet me today and that I'm just worried because you haven't turn up and I've waited for the past 6 hours, she just kept saying that I had given you a lot if trouble and that you're a busy guy and she knows you too well. She even said I should go find someone else and that since I wouldn't convert to be a Muslim if I marry you, she asked me to leave you. She said so much things which hurt me that I didn't know how else to tell her because she's your mom and I've got to respect her that I just started tearing over the phone. And even after she said so much, I still asked her one last time for your whereabouts and again, I just got a reply to stop contacting you.

I'm not trying to put you in a situation. Neither am I trying to spoil your relationship with your mom. But, have you thought of how it feels? At that point of time, I was not only worrying about your safety but also feeling so heart broken of what your mom has said to me. I wasn't the one who asked you to be my boyfriend. I didn't create any problems for you. Maybe I may not be a girlfriend who doesn't require any of your attention but that doesn't mean I've given you a lot of trouble right? I know that you tell me not to be affected by what your mom has said. But I wasn't prepared to face it since you told me that your family accepts me and wouldn't force me to convert. I want a happy family in the future. I don't want to have constant quarrels over religion issues. I love you. But do you understand how much it hurt me as well as my mom knowing how much your mom doesn't respect me since she said such things to me?

Yes, I know that my family wouldn't accept you because of your religion. But none of them had said such things to you. And even though sometimes I tell you what they say, did you know there were many more things which I just kept it in my heart and not tell you after knowing that you've to constantly think of many other things such as your job. Do you understand how much stress my family has given me but yet I choose to keep it to myself? You don't. So don't tell me not to be affected by what your mom has said to me. I respect her. That's why even when she said such things to me, I didn't yell at her.

I really hope you can talk to her about it then give me an explanation. A marriage is not just about a commitment of 2 people who are in love with each other. But where 2 families combine and become 1.